Experts call this the age of divorce. But before many couples get to that point, they choose to separate. In fact, there are currently 4.5 million separated men and women in the US. But traditional separations are often viewed as a prelude to that final split. Now, there's a step in-between called controlled separation - basically a break with rules. It's a time-limited contract that sets parameters on the split to take away some of the fears and insecurities of spending time apart so that couples can better concentrate on saving their marriage! We'll show you important steps that could lead you from break up to bliss.