Alcoholism support for families of alcoholics is one of the most important aspects of recovery. Pamela, Lead Clinician at TRPs Family Program and clean for 21 years, knows that separation may be required before unification of the family takes place, in order for everyone to gain the recovery tools that they need. The combination of alcoholism and family emotions is complicated and often overwhelming. Forgiveness and understanding can be difficult for family members of alcoholics. Family focused therapies at TRP help family members work through these feelings. Acceptance of these feelings and an understanding of how to help an alcoholic family member in healthy and positive ways are important aspects of the recovery process. Learning how each member has a role within a family dealing with alcoholism is important.