Cass Mann is one of the world's longest-term HIV-positive diagnosed gay men, now in his third decade of living with HIV, and the founder of UK’s only gay men’s HIV/AIDS charity Positively Healthy, which provides HIV services including education, support, and peer counselling. Here he talks about alternatives to anal sex and oral sex that don't carry the risk of HIV transmission. Mutual masturbation and rubbing against your partner do not risk HIV transmission. We in the West have a "wham bam" culture in which these alternatives may seem less exciting at first, but they can be very pleasurable. You can investigate Tantric sexuality, Taoism, or the Kama Sutra for gay men. "Wham bam" sex isn't nurturing; it's almost always abusive, violent, and non-nurturing. These alternatives are nurturing and enlightening. They activate all your chakras, leading to an awakening. For more information about HIV and AIDS, visit http://www.posh-uk.org.uk/ and http://www.AIDSvideos.org/.
