http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Dealing with Saboteurs. After weight loss surgery, you may find that someone close to you is trying to undermine your efforts by starting to make derisive comments just when you feel like you're starting to look really good. Craig Thompson reminds us to distance ourselves from the naysayers, and offers several tips for dealing with saboteurs, so you can stay on the fast track to success.