This video discusses the issue of achieving unconditional love in our lives. It explains attachment theory and how to change from the insecure styles of ambivalence, avoidance, and disorganization to a secure style. These styles are the basis or Codependency. It is the seventh of ten lessons that deal with the core issues of selfishness and how to meet the core psychological needs of self-worth, significance, love and security from a biblical perspective. More on this subject is available on www.freechristiancounselingtraining.com and www.faiththerapy.org.