You know what I find one of the biggest difficulties that many wives have is believing that their husband did not intentionally mean to hurt them. I hear so many wives tell me âHe just doesnât love me. He really doesnât care.â And I tried to hear with them, âYou know, many times he just didnât know he was hurting you.â And so many wives say, âNah. Nobody could be that stupid. Nobody can miss that.â You know that a lot of husbands really do and why I wanna hear with wives is that many times a husband really is blind to the way he is hurting his wife and doesnât realize it. Let me just give you an example.
