God our great Father in heaven really do want us to be married before sex. sexual immorality ranks sorta high on His list of sins. Holy Bible always steer us against it. the sex may be banging with your honey but it's a slippery slope in the eyes of Jesus Christ. ladies i really hope you can get things together and began the process of understanding why you may be so unhappy and miserable with your current man. some people do not get it if i teach this in big chunks. so i decided to teach a little slower and i hope this will help. sexual immorality is a huge sin that Christians or church folk get tripped up on. we all make mistakes and it's fortunate for us that God loves us so much that he puts up with all of our foolishness.