If you have children, they should be your main concern. Where will they live? How will you both work to ensure their care, education and well being? We suggest that you sit down as a couple and explain the situation to your children immediately (or make sure they know that it's not their fault). Read more on our website at http://bakerandbakerlaw.com. Toronto Family Lawyer Baker & Baker practices Family Law for over 30 years in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Free consultation available call (416) 687-2842. http://bakerandbakerlaw.com/practice-areas/our-divorce-lawyers/