If you are in relationships where you are constantly bringing up the past, unable to let go of your resentments and grievances, the relationships will never heal because you will continue to see through the eyes of the past. You will continue to demonize your partner and will be unable to see them as they are, only as they were. Let go of the past and your relationships have a chance to heal. This doesnât mean you tolerate abuse. It doesnât mean you become a doormat. You set boundaries with your partner and base your feelings towards them on whether they respect those boundaries today.
