Chris Brown and RihannaReally I wasn't supprised when they got back together. I was supprised that it happened so quickly. People need to realize that it doesn't matter how sorry the abuser is. How much he or she says it will never happen again, or how believeable they are when they say it because they truly believe they will never do it again. You aren't doing anyone any favors. Not the abuser, not your children, not family or friends, and especially not yourself by staying with an abuser.