14year-lie.wmvBad marriage? This is my wife, after 14 years of marriage, and after having surgery on one breast, and a Hysterectomy in the next few months. So, she has decided to end our 14 year marriage. I have read the book on this subject, and it is extreamly bad. However, I can not understand why she would rip my heart out like this, she knows I would take care of her no matter what the outcome of these trying days ahead to come.. If you've had this surgery, you know the risk. How can I tell her it doesn't matter to me what happens, I love her any way?
I know my wife has to have this surgery, and I know there are some mental issues associated with it.
could this be why she wants to divorce?
trying to protect me?
I don't know what to say to her, she claims she does not love me, and never did. She claims the only reason she stayed with me all these years, was because her two son's needed a good father, and I was there, and a good man...
