How to Write a Hardship Letter Step 1First brainstorm about your hardship. Sit down, and write down every idea that pops in your head about why you can't afford your house. Why are you having financial difficulties. Loss of job, medical bills, increased property taxes, child's college education tuition, divorce, credit card debt, etc. Write every possible thought that has any affect on your financial situation or your wanting to get rid of the property. It doesn't matter what you write down. Don't think too much, just write whatever pops in your head. Sit and write until you have at least 5 ideas. If you don't have 5, you're thinking too much. Just write whatever pops in your head.